Saturday, October 16, 2010

He Kissed Her

Tonight I'm sad. I just found out Dillon kissed Annie.  But why would I be sad about that?  Probably because I took him at his word when he said he would wait until he got married to kiss her.  I really believed him.  I was hopeful that he would wait.  But he didn't.  I suppose I knew he would eventually.  Alright, I guess mothers intuition knew he did already, I was just hoping I was wrong.  I hate it when I'm right!

Well default response is "well I guess it could be worse."  Or "well, I had already done worse by his age."  These stupid responses are just that... STUPID!  I need to figure out what my true feelings are about this and deal with it. I acted like I wasn't shocked by it, very even keeled actually.  Cool as a cucumber.

OH HOW NAIVE COULD I BE!!!!! REALLY!

 GRRR I have a headache.  Im going to bed!

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Scouts

Recently I signed Aaron up for Cub Scouts.  He is so excited about this.  We went to a meeting last Thursday, and officially signed him up last night.  He went out tonight to sell popcorn to earn money for his account so he can do things with his den.  As my little bear cub is trying to fall asleep tonight, he's practicing tying the bowline knot on a rope his den leader showed him how to tie last Thursday, at the den meeting.  The event he's most excited about right now is Cub Fun Day, this Sunday.  After we got home from the den meeting last week, Aaron was excitedly telling Ben how much fun he had and that he learned how to tie a bowline knot.  Ben looked at me and said, "Mom, will I get to be a Boy Scout too someday and learn how to tie knots like Aaron?"     


I signed Hannah up for American Heritage Girls last Sunday, it's going to be a lot of fun also!  AHG is like Girl Scouts, but better!  She and I are going to a fund raiser / informational meeting / movie night on November the 5th.  The groups will officially begin meeting in January. We are very much looking forward to making new friends and learning all kinds of wonderful scouting things with AHG.           

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Week 7

We're on week 7 of school and things seem to be moving right along.  Hannah and Aaron are finally in a groove.  At last, I feel like I can breathe and get things done around the house besides just school!

Dillon is complying so far, but I do worry about him and college.  I wonder if he's even college material, is that where God wants him? What is Dillon's plan?  It seems like all he is concerned with is Annie.  I hope thats not the case, I hope he's not waisting away his senior year.  He wants to apply to Robert Morris University, I just don't see him being successful at school at all.  But what do I know, God knows better than I do, maybe Dillon will mature enough by then to make it work...who knows!

Friday, August 27, 2010

5 Days Down

175 more to go! We started school this week. For the past 12 years every "first day" has involved tears, this year was no different. Hannah broke down in a pool of tears over math; thankfully Dave was here to "save the day" and talk her down off the ceiling. It's usually math that does it too...sends them right over the edge. I wonder how I would react to a "tear-less first day"? :)

Anyway, this week went pretty well. We are off to a great start in all subjects. We generally start off with a few subjects and ease our way into full blown school. Since Hannah and Aaron have pretty much retained most of the information from a few moths ago (beginning summer break), it has been easier to review and move forward.

Benjamin is in Preschool/Kindergarten this year; he's so cute! He has a school box just like the big kids do and a few workbooks too. He will get his box and books and climb up to the table just like Hannah and Aaron. He participates in Bible, and reading too. The other day after we were all finished with school for the day, Ben asks me "Mom, will you teach me to read too?" I was so tired and mentally exhausted, but in an effort to seize the learning moment...I said, "sure sweetie, let's watch the Letter Factory and practice sounding out letters." That was good enough for him. So we sat down in front of the TV and watched the Letter Factory.

I love teaching them! I really love watching their faces light up when they finally get a new concept or when they understand something I think is over their heads. How about all those extra hugs I get when they are just as excited about learning a new concept as I am to teach it to them...or the tender moments of watching my daughter teach her younger brother how to play piano, when she is just understanding it herself. The best part of that is, watching how kind she is when she is teaching him and even more how humble he is to learn from her. I do live a blessed life! All of this is made possible by my Savior! Thank you God!

Friday, August 13, 2010

Jet Ski

Every year we have come here, Dave and the bigs have wanted to rent jet ski's, but either they were too small to ride or we didn't have the money. so this year they finally got to jet ski! The littles and I stayed at beach 8 while they went to play. They've passed by us a few times zooming fast as they could go. it sure looks like fun!
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Sunset at Presque Isle

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Presque Isle

I love the beach! Today is Friday the 13th what a great day to be at the beach with my family. I just love this time of year, its our fouth annual trip to Presque Isle, Erie, Pa. The weather is perfect and the water is so warm and clear. The kids like to dig a hole in the sand deep enough to stand in. they've started digging again hopefully they'll get it done before we have to leave; which will be sunset. Dave and I came up yesterday for some work related business then we went to the beach to watch the sunset. Dave says we've done that before, but I dont think so...or at l?east I dont remember doing that! :) Anyway, WHAT A GREAT MEMORY! It was beautiful. I dont know how to post pictures from my phone yet but if I figure it out I'll besure to post it.
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Saturday, June 19, 2010

June 17 & 18

Well, she did it!
Danielle is finished with high school and moving on to college. At first, I was not really in favor of going to Harrisburg for her graduation ceremony, but I'm glad we did. She graduated with "honors" and it was nice to see how many other families were dedicated to traveling for their children too. Congratulations Danielle I am so proud of you!

The next day, we went to Gettysburg, PA. We have been homeschooling for 11 years now, and of those 11 years we must have studied the Civil War 7 or 8 of those years. You would think that since we live in Pennsylvania we would have taken advantage of the rich history here. Gettysburg always seemed so far away! It's not really that far and it was SO worth it! The trip was made even better by the fact that Dave, Bev and Clay were able to see it with us. We spent all day Friday touring around from one historical site to the next...and still didn't see everything there was to see. I think my favorite part was the Cyclorama/ Museum at the Visitors Center. That was truly awe inspiring!

The drive home was great too! Instead of taking to turnpike, we took the scenic route... on purpose! The mountains were beautiful!!! The sun setting behind the mountains was even more beautiful! I noticed at 9:45 p.m. (no that's not a typo it was 9:45 p.m.) there was still a trace of sun off to the west lighting the sky with hues of pink, purple and blue still hanging on to the tops of the mountains. I took it all in and thanked the Lord for the opportunity to witness such an amazing view!

This morning as we step back into our daily routine I am so am thankful for what God has allowed us to have and see. I am grateful for the perspective "salvation" brings to my life. I am not sure I would have enjoyed these last few days the same without Him!

"Thank you Jesus for all you have done and continue to do in our lives!"

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Texas Road Trip





Our road trip to Texas went off without a hitch. Danielle, Hannah, Aaron, Benjamin and I packed up last week headed south for Memorial Day weekend. We had a great time! Being a veteran home-schooler, I planned for this trip to be educational; I didn't let a moment go to waste!

We went to the Texas Ranger Hall of Fame, the Dr. Pepper Museum (in Waco), and Texas State Capital (in Austin). We went to the dairy where I had my first job, saw the town and house where I grew up (in Midlothian). We went to my Mom's farm in Abbott and and toured a sale barn in West, Tx. On Monday, we went to Austin to watch and cheer my brother on in a triathlon event he was in. It was crazy hot that day!

Of all the things we did on our 7 day road trip, I have to say my favorite part was the cookout at Mom's. Heather's family, Mom and the 5 of us enjoyed smoked hamburgers with corn on the cob, and potato salad. It was really nice and relaxed, the kids played and rode the quad, went fishing and played with the cats under Nana's porch.

I wish I would have blogged everyday that way I wouldn't forget anything fun that happened. Ideally, I would have blogged from my phone, that was one of the reasons I bought the Android. I tried to blog but couldn't figure it out. NOW, if Dillon would have gone with us, then he could have figured it our for me.... :)

At any rate, a great time was had by all.





Friday, May 21, 2010

The Garden

I have been told, here in Pennsylvania, you should always plant on or about May 20th; well, that's what the "old timers" say anyway. While Hannah was at piano, I went to the nursery (Liniks in Finleyville) and bought my garden plants. I had to buy them this year because got a late start on planting. I did buy seeds this year from a heirloom seed company, but I didn't realize I should have bought them in early March to start them inside...so I had to buy starter plants.

Hannah and I had a great time planting, yesterday. The boys helped too. We planted 3 different tomatoes, zucchini, 3 different kind of cucumbers, 2 slicing kind and 1 pickling kind, 3 different kind of lettuce, strawberries, green beans, peas, sugar snap peas and beets. The kids planted pumpkin seeds on a mound at the other end of the yard. Today Ben and I will be planting parsley, basil, dill, thyme, rosemary, chamomile, lavender, and a black raspberry plant.

I love gardening!

The Garden

I have been told, here in Pennsylvania, you should always plant on or about May 20th; well, that's what the "old timers" say anyway. While Hannah was at piano, I went to the nursery (Liniks in Finleyville) and bought my garden plants. I had to buy them this year because got a late start on planting. I did buy seeds this year from a heirloom seed company, but I didn't realize I should have bought them in early March to start them inside...so I had to buy starter plants.

Hannah and I had a great time planting, yesterday. The boys helped too. We planted 3 different tomatoes, zucchini, 3 different kind of cucumbers, 2 slicing kind and 1 pickling kind, 3 different kind of lettuce, strawberries, green beans, peas, sugar snap peas and beets. The kids planted pumpkin seeds on a mound at the other end of the yard. Today Ben and I will be planting parsley, basil, dill, thyme, rosemary, chamomile, lavender, and a black raspberry plant.

I love gardening!

Monday, May 10, 2010

Mothers Day



I used to not be a fan of "Hallmark" holidays like Mother's Day. Probably because it usually meant more work for me! However, yesterday was different, a lot different. Late Saturday night I mentioned to the kids and Dave I would like to not have flowers or yard work on Mother's day this year, just Lindt Dark Chili Chocolate. (I should mention here that the flowers and yard work was always my idea, not theirs!) Then after everyone woke up on Sunday morning I decided I wanted Beverly and Clay to join us for dinner; dinner that Dave and the kids were going to make. But in order for that to happen the house needed to be cleaned too, and I wasn't going to do that either! They all joyfully agreed to serve me this way. and I LET THEM!!!!!

I made a list of things that Dave needed to get from the store for dinner and off he went. While he was gone the kids cleaned the house. All I had to do was clean my room, which by the way not only needed it but I was glad to do it! Then I laid on my bed and listened to my iPod for a really long time...DOING NOTHING!!!!! It was great!

After a while Dave returned and the dinner preparations were underway. We had stuffed pork roast with baked potatoes and green beans. Danielle made Buckeye's for dessert. Clay brought 3 pounds of huge, cored, perfectly ripe, strawberries with dipping sauce.

Then we ate! What a meal!!!! Oh my goodness, it was fantastic; I stuffed myself!

The very best part about the meal was, I didn't have to clean up ANYTHING!!!!!

After dinner, we retired to the living-room for an amusing game of toss the whiffle ball, a game that Benjamin invented. Mr. Bossy Pants, Ben, was bossing everyone around, no one was safe...it didn't matter he was the youngest(4) one in the room while everyone else is 8 to 82, he thought he was the oldest and in charge! He was telling everyone exactly where to toss the ball. It was great fun! :)

I did get a few gifts for Mother's Day, I just love them too. Dave picked up on the blatant hint of chocolate and bought 5 boxes of Lindt's Chili flavored Dark Chocolate (one from each one of the kids), and 2 huge baskets of outdoor flowers. Danielle made a card from all the kids that made me cry. It had pictures of each one of the kids on it with a space for everyone to write a little note for me.

Thank you guys for such a wonderful Mother's Day! I really enjoyed it and I love you all so much!!!!!

Mother's Day



I used to not be a fan of "Hallmark" holidays like Mother's Day. Probably because it usually meant more work for me! However, yesterday was different, a lot different. Late Saturday night I mentioned to the kids and Dave I would like to not have flowers or yard work on Mother's day this year, just Lindt Dark Chili Chocolate. (I should mention here that the flowers and yard work was always my idea, not theirs!) Then after everyone woke up on Sunday morning I decided I wanted Beverly and Clay to join us for dinner; dinner that Dave and the kids were going to make. But in order for that to happen the house needed to be cleaned too, and I wasn't going to do that either! They all joyfully agreed to serve me this way. and I LET THEM!!!!!

I made a list of things that Dave needed to get from the store for dinner and off he went. While he was gone the kids cleaned the house. All I had to do was clean my room, which by the way not only needed it but I was glad to do it! Then I laid on my bed and listened to my iPod for a really long time...DOING NOTHING!!!!! It was great!

After a while Dave returned and the dinner preparations were underway. We had stuffed pork roast with baked potatoes and green beans. Danielle made Buckeye's for dessert. Clay brought 3 pounds of huge, cored, perfectly ripe, strawberries with dipping sauce.

Then we ate! What a meal!!!! Oh my goodness, it was fantastic; I stuffed myself!

The very best part about the meal was, I didn't have to clean up ANYTHING!!!!!

After dinner, we retired to the living-room for an amusing game of toss the whiffle ball, a game that Benjamin invented. Mr. Bossy Pants, Ben, was bossing everyone around, no one was safe...it didn't matter he was the youngest(4) one in the room while everyone else is 8 to 82, he thought he was the oldest and in charge! He was telling everyone exactly where to toss the ball. It was great fun! :)

I did get a few gifts for Mother's Day, I just love them too. Dave picked up on the blatant hint of chocolate and bought 5 boxes of Lindt's Chili flavored Dark Chocolate (one from each one of the kids), and 2 huge baskets of outdoor flowers. Danielle made a card from all the kids that made me cry. It had pictures of each one of the kids on it with a space for everyone to write a little note for me.

Thank you guys for such a wonderful Mother's Day! I really enjoyed it and I love you all so much!!!!!

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Peaceful Moments
















One of the reasons I love Pennsylvania, is the beautiful landscape.


This is my view, just about every morning, from my kitchen table, as I am sipping my morning coffee. WHAT'S NOT TO LOVE!!!!!


It would be perfect if there were a family of bunnies nibbling on the dewy morning grass; but Jazz and Kiki have ran them all off.








Soon, that bare garden will be full of yummy veggies.
I had Dillon make a few more rows this year. It was in the shape of an "L". And I couldn't stand it any more. So to make it more symmetrical we added a few more rows = more veggies!!!

We are expecting to have one or two more frosts, but after that we're clear to plant. I am hoping to begin buying my starter plants this weekend.



Peaceful Moments
















One of the reasons I love Pennsylvania, is the beautiful landscape.


This is my view, just about every morning, from my kitchen table, as I am sipping my morning coffee. WHAT'S NOT TO LOVE!!!!!


It would be perfect if there were a family of bunnies nibbling on the dewy morning grass; but Jazz and Kiki have ran them all off.








Soon, that bare garden will be full of yummy veggies.
I had Dillon make a few more rows this year. It was in the shape of an "L". And I couldn't stand it any more. So to make it more symmetrical we added a few more rows = more veggies!!!

We are expecting to have one or two more frosts, but after that we're clear to plant. I am hoping to begin buying my starter plants this weekend.





Friday, March 5, 2010

Government Kool-Aid

What a difficult time we live in now. You can't trust the school to give your child a proper education. To come along side you and your endeavor to raise up a child in the way he should go so when he is old he wont depart from it. What happen to that cultural thought process? There's even more distrust with the colleges now days to entrust your precious child to higher educated people to help them to become even more useful and productive people of the Lord and the country.

What has happened to our country? We used to be a solid Christian nation standing for solid Christian values; where the people answered to one God, the Creator of the Universe. The schools are teaching our very innocent, trusting children, through very nice teachers...trusting teachers with sweet faces...that their parents aren't as smart as their teachers are and they themselves are learning things the parents didn't and that they should have the "talk" with them to help them understand the government is for us. And that the government is there in place to take care of them and they (the government) will see to it they get all the information they need to make good decisions. The government via the school system is corrupting our society THROUGH OUR CHILDREN!!!!!! This sickens me and many other parents who are finally waking up to the barrage of evil being cast upon our children.

I just watched Glen Beck's show on "Indoctrination of Our Children", where actual video footage was shown in real school rooms of teachers telling the children about how the government is set up to "take good care of us" and actual footage of Vice President Al Gore talking to the children in a class room about how "stupid" these childrens parents are and how much smarter the kids and the teachers are than their parents. WHAT! This enrages me!

Ok so what can I do about this...well, I think I am doing what I can...we home-school our children. They get the truth of who, what, when, where and why our great country was formed. We teach them their rights, privileges and duties as a citizen of Gods Kingdom and of this country. That's not so much the problem at the lower level ages of (home) schooling...what about college?

It used to be a noble thing to go to college, only the smart kids went or the richest ones got to to on to a higher education. Ok that may seem a bit unfair at first glance, but if you look deeper into the problem "equalization" has caused a nation wide epidemic of "entitlement" among our youth. That "old school" thought process really wasn't that unfair. You work hard in school and earn your right/way to go to college, if your family couldn't afford the tuition then you either worked your butt off to make it happen for yourself or you didn't go! But thats when college was a noble place to go for higher learning. Now its just more indoctrination at the expense of the "stupid" parents pocketbook. Are we're too stupid to just drop into line and follow everyone else "drinking the Kool-Aid" of our socialistic government? They are taking our childrens' hearts and minds hostage and turning them against the "family" - God's family!

I wonder if Dave and I have become part of the problem not the solution for our children. Well, for Danielle at this point anyway. I believe out of fear, we told her we'd find away to pay for her college tuition she just needs to go. I am not so sure that's the right thing to do.

FEAR? Fear of what? Fear of her becoming like we are struggling to make ends meet? Fear of her hating us and becoming depressed? Fear of her not becoming all she can be? Fear of what our/her friends will say? Fear of what the people in the community/family will say knowing we home-schooled her? At what point do we say enough with "fear of man"? And at what point do we say "Have your way with our lives, God!" and mean it? At what point do we say enough to government control of our families? She wants more than anything to be a stay at home mom and raise her children in the comfort and safety of her home with a loving husband that feels the same way.

Is God not bigger than all of this? Can't He find a way when we can not? Doesn't He already know how this will all play out? Why am I so wrapped up in fear of the unknown when it's already known, just not revealed?

"Be still and know I am God!"
"Yes, indeed you are!" "But..."

Gods word in a lamp unto our feet, not a flood light on our future. This has to be one of the biggest, consistent, struggles I have, with God. And I have successfully (or unfortunately) passed on this besetting sin (arguing with/doubting/not trusting God) onto my beautiful daughter. Oh sure, we have flashes of brilliants in this area but for the most part...not so much.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

checking to see if this works